How to Choose a BDSM Mouth Gag?

What is a Bondage Mouth Gag?

The BDSM mouth gag is a sex toy that has an adjustable strap that goes over the wearer’s head and a silicone or rubber ball gag that fits in the mouth. When fastened in place, the mouth gags prevent speech and muffle moans. It is a commonly used sex aid in BDSM plays, as the mouth gags are very sexy; they create a sense of helplessness and vulnerability for the wearer and allow the dominant partner to exercise more control over their submissive.

How to Select BDSM Mouth Gags?

There are various BDSM mouth gag models, many of which are inventive, creative, and sexy, allowing you to significantly spice up your sexy games. To save you from wondering, we share a guide on mount gag purchasing, and we list the main features you need to look for when buying a mouth gag:

• Design – there are three basic mouth gag designs, and each of these has its merits and provides a different type of experience.
  • Over-the-mouth gag – this type of mouth gag is placed over the wearer’s mouth, and it can be as simple as a scarf placed over the mouth and tied behind the head. There are also tape gags where bondage tape is placed over the mouth, similar to what they do in the movies. Panel and muzzle gags are other examples of over-the-mouth gags that you can get.
  • In-the-mouth gags – these are the most commonly found and used gags, and the most famous variety is the ball gag. It has a ball that goes into the sub’s mouth, behind the teeth and straps that attach around the wearer’s head. The ball gag is designed not to trigger a gag reflex, and it is effortless to use. The ball gags come with solid or breathable balls, with the latter being the perfect choice for beginners. Another choice for an in-the-mouth gag is the famous dildo gag, a two-in-one model that has a small penis instead of a ball that goes into the wearer’s mouth. It can also protrude and be used for penetrative sex. There are also inflatable penis gags where you can inflate the penis-shaped gag to fill out your sub’s mouth. Some models are even designed to trigger the gag reflex and cause excessive drooling, which some find appealing. Another model is the bit gag, which is often shaped like a bone and is favored by people with animal fetishes.
  • Mouth-opening gag – the third variety is the mouth-opening gag that keeps the sub’s mouth open. The most famous model is the O-ring gag, where a hollow ring is placed behind the wearer’s teeth, and the straps attach to the back of the head. If the ring is large enough, you can also use it for oral sex. There are lip-shaped mouth-opening gags that look exotic. Other models are the ratchet-style or Jennings gag and the spider gag; these are used to keep the sub’s mouth open and control how much it will open.

• Size - the size of the ball is the most crucial factor you need to know when selecting a ball gag. Ball gags often have letters attached to them to their size, and they range from XS which has about 1.25 inches in diameter, to XL with about 3 inches in diameter. If your partner is a beginner or if you want to hear more of their cries, it's best to use a smaller ball and then up the size as time progresses. Experienced users who wish to enhance their fantasies or use ball gags as torture - the rule is the bigger, the better. It also goes for the size of the o-ring gags and dildo gags, as knowing the size of the insertable part is essential for safe and satisfying use.
• Material – The next thing to note is the materials from which the mouth gag is made. The most common choice is a silicone or a rubber ball attached to a leather or faux leather strap that can have snap closures, buckle closures, or even Velcro closures. There are also models with elastic straps. We recommend you get a silicone ball gag, as silicone is a durable, body-safe material that is comfortable on the teeth. The open-mouth gags are usually made from a metal or silicone ring that is attached to a strap. Please be mindful when using metal gags, as improper handling can hurt the teeth.
• Accessories – the last thing you need to consider when choosing a BDSM mouth gag are the provided accessories. Some models come with attached nipple clamps, while others come with a blindfold, a collar, handcuffs, and even entire headgear straps.

FAQs

Is it dangerous to use a mouth gag?

The mouth gag is intended to keep the wearer’s mouth occupied and filled, restricting speech and screaming. Most of the mouth gags are designed to prevent the gag reflex, but there are still some safety concerns. For example, people with asthma and other breathing problems should not use a mouth gag. Also, the dominant partner should keep a close eye on the wearer, and you should never leave a gagged person alone.

Can beginners use a BDSM mouth gag or a ball gag?

The best beginner-friendly ball gags are the breathable silicone ball gags, as these are less restrictive and allow easy breathing. However, before you introduce a ball gag or any other type of mouth gag to your sex play, you and your partner should discuss this and establish safety signals that will clearly point when it is time to stop.

How to clean a ball gag?

It is essential to clean a mouth gag, and often, washing them with warm water and antibacterial soap is enough. You can use liquid soap, dish soap, or an antibacterial toy cleaner to wash and disinfect your ball gag. It is trickier to clean the breathable ball gags, as the small holes in the ball need extra diligence when washing, and we recommend you rinse them under running water and use small pipe cleaners to remove any residue and ensure you will have a clean and sterile breathable ball gag.